The Decade of Zero Fucks. And 10 things I love about it.

I always thought it was a big fat cliché. Those women who say “I love being in my 40s, I’d never want to be back in my 20s. I’m my best…

I always thought it was a big fat cliché. Those women who say “I love being in my 40s, I’d never want to be back in my 20s. I’m my best self now.” Suckers! I’d think, swilling a third Mike’s Hard Lemonade in my black string bikini. But it turns out they were right.

At 45, no one expects me to actually go in the pool.

In my 20s I was searching, undecided. …