Why I hate "chill."

(see also: don't f*cking tell me to relax)

I’ve spoken before about something I call “the tyranny of casual” or “the bullying effect of effortless dressing.” Basically the idea (and what shitty irony) of people judging other people for looking too dressed up.

Over the weekend, I was reading my friend Rose (add her name to the drinking game along with Prada, Tibi, Castanet, pizza and you will be v…