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Oh no oh no I had momentarily forgotten ABMO (and it shows in the PBS tee shirt and weird jeans I’m wearing currently) appreciate the refresh 🫡

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Please … I can’t remember now what this is. I tried to find in old Substack articles but failed. Remind me please. :)

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Always Be Making Outfits 🪩

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Ahhh bless you. I now recall that!

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LOL; we all have our moments. Always good to rep PBS :-)

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Also what a great tip to dress tonal at home. I’m totally going to do this (and I need to clean out my tshirt drawer also)

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Thank you for this undergarment rec! One of my goals for 2025 was to sort out my brass and underwear. Many body changes with perimenopause and I have not been able to buy bras that fit me or underwear that’s not giving me wedgies. I ordered several bras and the high cut high brief undies- fingers crossed!!

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YAY -- so excited for you! XX

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Self tanning drops sound so great but I haven’t done at home self tanner since 1987 when I trialed it on my 7 year old sister and it was way too difficult to execute!! Fortunately 35+ years later the skin behind her knees is no longer orange.

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😂 the stuff is WAY better now. Literally pump some lotion in my hand stick some drops of it in. Put it on like lotion, - wash my hands after.

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I love Eby bras! I bought two in November and I just bought the one you linked yesterday in the sale. The balconette one makes my boobs look soooo good under a sheer top. I need to try their underwear but I’m sold on Negative boy shirts also so it might be hard to switch over.

Happy New Year to you!

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Yayyyyy. That one I linked is so sexy and supportive I was like “who is she” while in Veblen the other day…. I hope they do all the things!

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All life improving ideas!!! Would you mind providing the name of the self tanning drops, when I follow the link I don’t see them. Thanks

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UPGRADE TO COMFY UNDIES! I am screaming this from the rooftops myself because darn it I am tired of pulling underware out of my whoha because it fits too tight or is too small. I love these gems.

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What a nice way to start the New Year......Thank you for all your "gems" .......and most importantly wishing you a healthy, fun, and wonderful 2025....xxxs

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Wishing you the same. So glad you are here! XX

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Totally agree! Showering at night feels so much better—more time to relax and wash away the day. I think it's pretty common in Asian cultures too, and I love going to bed feeling clean and refreshed!

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