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What I wore all week: +1-ing myself back to life

My New Year's Fleshrolutions: 19 ageless, non-cringe ways to lean into "sexy*"

What I wore all week: Feeling my way forward.

Meet the Grief Selfie

6 Gems, Vol. 34: The Grief Kit

How to Dress Your Son for His Father's Funeral

6 Gems, Vol 33: how to get out of plans

What I wore all week: Cocooning. 16 outfits. 8 concrete tips.

The damage is done. 14 ways out of the Flagellation Station.

6 Gems! Vol. 32: The joy ride edition

What I wore all week: hello darkness my old friend

FML: Everything I bought in November with takeaways + my Shopping Diary

25+ tips, tricks and pitfalls for using The Real Real, by Subscriber Request

6 Gems! vol. 31: 6 things I'm doing instead of Black Friday.

9:11 AM - 9:41 AM

What I wore all week: don't dull your shine (remember, nobody puts baby in a corner)

POV: Style CAN be learned. And this is how we practice.

6 Gems! vol. 30: the Handbag Heroes

What I wore all week: Get in touch with your child.

POV: old clothes > new clothes

6 Gems! vol. 29: sneaky new hacks

What I wore all week: Seeking Richard, finding sorrow

Reader request: How do I deal with vests?

39 things I'm thinking, saying, doing & suggesting to feel ok right now

What I wore all week: 11 looks, lots of secondhand links + more.

Breakthrough! Everything I bought in October with 9 actionable takeaways. Plus, my shopping diary.

4 from IG. Folake. Dafne. Christ'l. Rachel.

6 Gems! vol. 27: Grab your hankie

What I wore all week: The week my inner leather got activated.

Leather. Because we want to be BAD. No? Just me?

do I have to buy inexpensive clothes to be interesting to you?

6 Gems! vol. 26: Max impact, min spend

What I wore all week: Seeking calm, finding color

POV: 5 ahas. 5 steps. Please attend everything this fall in the same dress.

POV: Dye, shaming.

6 Gems! vol. 25: Secret searches and more

What I wore all week. Denim + more denim. And some rage. And repenting.

Reader request: How to use a handbag to create friction: 3 experts, 12 tips

POV when "side hustle" meets "day job"

6 Gems! vol. 24: Brazen more-ness.

What I wore all week. Gatsby dreams. Lambrusco and chocolate realities.

8 ways to trim your mullet. But first: Ask if (and why) you want to.

Gatekeepers, your insecurity is showing.

Everything I bought in September. And my 20 takeaways from my CONSCIOUS CULLING. And 11 steps to doing your own.

What I wore all week. Confirmed -- I don't like entitled assholes. But I do like dressing like one.

POV: "I'm going to work out" is the unlock to your best outfits

Have you ever had clothes made? My live look inside Valeria's studio, what happened next, and an invitation.

6 Gems! vol. 23: the closet heroes

What I wore all week: Clear lungs, good moods, can't lose.

Reader Request: My 35 best secondhand shopping tips

Let’s talk and cull shoes, live (ish)

I am such a f*cking blonde you guys

What I wore all week: When the Jag won't start.

Reader request: 8 steps to finding your new uniform for a new life

6 Gems! vol. 22: Out with the old.

What I wore all week: Home, where my music's playing

6 Gems! vol. 21: Small pleasures. Only 1 is guilty.

Everything I bought in August + 11 looks I wore this week.

An idea: Dress like this is it. Because maybe this is it.

Special subscriber treat! Allison Bornstein gives us 15+ new LMAs.

What I wore all week: Deciding on JOY.

9 things I look for as a paying Substack subscriber. And the 11 that make me unsubscribe, paying or not.

6 Gems! vol. 20: When I quit being a complainiarian and let the light in.

What I wore all week: C ya, Summer

Goodbye, Dear Dora Maar

on the viral substack shot heard 'round the (tiny) world + cutting each other up like cucumbers

6 Gems! vol. 18: for the love of an old shirt

What I wore all week: Table for One

POV: Sale is a trap. 3 experts and 10 tips get us out of it.

6 Gems! vol. 17: My parents pronounce words for us.

Everything I bought in July

What I wore all week: Taking. Control.

Stop the shaming. It's not working.

Meet me in the middle

Hey, M. Jalil

6 Gems! vol. 16: escaping (if you're going to get away, then really get away!)

What I wore all week: From epic proportions to comfort seeking to ... vacation.

10 looks. 12 takeaways. I finally recorded my Allison Bornstein Session!

6 Gems! vol. 15: change makers

What I wore all week: How to dress for an emotional roller coaster.

About THAT story. I went to Kelly with all my questions. And got 4 key takeaways.

5 experts. 10 looks. How not to feel like sh*t when it's hot as f*ck

6 Gems! vol. 14: Everything sucks.

What I wore all week: highs and lows of denim days

Listener Question: Can you be "fashion" and still wear color?

Addicted to Tibi? 11 ways "the Program" can help.

6 Gems! vol. 13: I need a mood elevator

What I wore all week: to be myself, even in summer

Listener Question: Have I outgrown my style?

10 things I learned when my friend Irene stopped wanting stuff

6 Gems! vol. 12: How to Feel at Home While Away

Everything I bought in June

What I wore all week: out of sorts in New England

POV: What if statement pieces are more useful than basics?

6 Gems! vol. 11

What I wore all week

Tibi + Miu Miu are making me long for ... Ralph.

The short sleeve button-up: "summer solved" or devil's handiwork?

Shopping with dad

6 Gems! vol. 10

What I wore all week

13 AHAs from my *second* Allison Bornstein styling session.

Should I try to be pretty?

Should I try to be pretty?

6 Gems! vol. 9

What I wore all week

POV: The best way to declutter is to buy something new.

"Subversive Conservative" Work Dressing

Quick Hit: 5 things I want (and want to do) because of Tibi Resort 2025

6 Gems! vol. 8: THE COLLAR ED.

Everything I bought in May

How to be a Content Creator

25 summer outfits with 3 magical pieces

What's In Store: The time the clothes were *actually* made for me.

6 Gems! vol. 7

What I wore this week - PLUS ...

7 occasions, 1 uniform, for 100% comfort *everywhere*

what can clothes do ...

Emergency Lounge Shorts! So Ruth C. can get her legs out.

6 Gems! vol. 6

What I wore all week

Hey, M. Park

Clothes = Comfort

6 Gems! vol. 5

What I wore all week

The death of the ugly work bag.

Is everything advertising?

6 Gems! vol 4.

What I wore all week

Everything I bought in April. Sigh. In 33 outfits.

Can bodies be off limits? On IG and IRL.

6 gems! Vol. 3

Part 2: 26 ways to wear shorts while being whatever age you are

Dear shorts: I am so mad at you. Part 1.

Is Substack becoming high school?

6 gems! vol. 2

You asked. 14+ ways to style loafers for spring.

Do we secretly want to be treated like sh*t?

6 gems!

How to get out of work for the Tibi marathon tomorrow

16 ways to wear the boat shoes you bought and haven't worn once

Shop like a slacker

You guys, she talked to ME

30 springy outfits - Phoebe Philo totally optional

The one about the Cartier Love Bracelet

The 13 takeaways from my 1-item month

My 1 item* March

The Color Cage

11 things I took out of my cart

why I'm in my undies on IG

Giving up = winning

"Basics" aka "Best in Class" - Updated Regularly

F*ck Size, part 2

F*ck Size, part 1

Yes, dear reader, I bought the Phoebe. Again.

Style without judgement

My 9 Oscars 2024 (judgement-free!) takeaways

Have prices killed "Serendipity Shopping"?

You asked! A 57-outfit primer on "balance"

12 AHAs from my Allison Bornstein styling session.

Is the "work dress" dead?

Whatever you do, don't "dress your age"

the 20 items on my "Modern Leopard" love list

"Investment dressing" is a sham

Is our denim "Holy Grail" just an illusion?

I road tested 5 styling ideas from the Tibi Fall '24 runway show

"Dupes" are the devil

Hi, my name is Rachel + I bought 25 (ish) things in January.

Meet a real life Hermes bag collector

23 insider tips for buying a used Hermes bag

13 things I've taken OUT of my cart

What's in Store: my hidden, no-sign secondhand discovery

Sadness in a heap of clothes.

Quick Hit: the 14 items on my Open-to-Buy List

I finally have a uniform

"Getting inspired" without social

how to wear a mini ... while having cellulite

We came, we Kleined. Can we conquer?

Why the f*ck did I wear that?

Did Tibi change our "style"?

For those of you who aren't my mom ...

Why the f*ck did I wear that?

In post social media world, are we all just ... copies?

How do you know ... when it should go?